Being a male the stigma of being abused by another man is enough in itself.carrying this pain within myself for over 40 years begin to take its toll. I made it up in my mind I was going to kill my molester. He only lived a couple of miles away. I saw him pretty regular, speaking to me from time to time as through, we were good friends. After thinking how and when I was going to end his life, Idecided against it. I thought of the hardship this would cause to my family. Although it took me ten years to do so I got him. He now sits in a detention center in Maryland awaiting our trial date of 13 Dec 2007. I found two other victims, because before it was simpily my word aginist his. Although he is behind bars, I do feel better about my self for having the fortatude to pursue this man. He is 78 years old now. I pray that God will allow him to live a few days more, so that I can have my day in court. To be honest it happend so many years ago, sometimes it really seems like it didn't happned, but it did. Hopefully this will bring some closure to this chapter of my life. But I often think of his other victims who will never get thier day in court. If you know were your molester is do your best to get justice. Just think,mine thought that he had gotten away. When I went for his bond hearing, he was a broken down old man, but his age made him no less of a preditor. I'm sure he has shattered many lives. I hope to shatter the rest of his on Dec 13th. Keep you posted.
